On every account
Included free.
Identity and verification
ID verification
An optional government ID check that puts a visible badge on your profile, so people know you are real.
Video verification
A short live video check with a moderator, which confirms who you are without sending any documents.
Age assurance
Age estimation with further checks where they are needed, to keep under-18s out.
Privacy and control
Safe usernames
Your real name and email address are never shown publicly.
Location privacy
Other members see your nearest town or city, never your address or where you are right now.
Instant blocking
Block anyone and they can no longer contact you or see you.
Easy reporting
Report a member or a piece of content from inside the site in a couple of taps.
Community trust
Member ratings
Every member has a reputation score built from how they behave and the feedback they get.
One-click feedback
Rate an interaction up or down with a single click.
Off-platform contact alerts
A warning when someone tries to move your conversation to an outside app such as WhatsApp, a common scam tactic.
Active protection
Behaviour monitoring
Automatic detection of unusual or suspicious activity, to catch scammers and bots early.
Content moderation
Images, videos and text are screened on upload by automated checks and human reviewers.
Swift takedowns
Fast removal of unauthorised or harmful content when it is reported.
Explicit image protection
Potentially sensitive images are blurred, with a warning, until you choose to view them.
Support and standards
Human support around the clock
A real support team, by chat, phone and messaging, 24 hours a day.
Safe dating guidance
Tips and reminders built into the site, for safer decisions online and in person.
Secure infrastructure
PCI-compliant cloud hosting with full SSL encryption.
Industry standards
The platform is involved with the Online Dating and Discovery Association, which promotes trust and safety best practice.
Kinky dating rules
- Talk through limits and a safe word before meeting.
- Meet in public first, with no play.
- Let a friend know the plan.
- Never send money to someone you have not met.
- Report anyone who pushes past a no.
Safety questions
How do I report someone?
Use Report on their profile or chat; the team checks it day and night.
Can I hide my photos?
Yes, in a private gallery.