Before
- Video call to check they are who they say.
- Agree it is a talk-only first meeting.
- Share their profile with a friend.
During
- Meet somewhere busy.
- Stay sober enough to judge.
- Talk limits, interests and expectations openly.
After
- Text your friend that you are home.
- Say honestly whether you want to meet again.
- Report anything that felt wrong.
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Common questions
Is it OK to play on a first date?
We strongly advise against it; meet first, play later.
What if they will not video call?
Treat it as a warning sign.